When Feedback Surprises Plans

When Feedback Surprises Plans

And How It Shapes Our Church Health Assessments

I had the perfect plan.

Color-coded. Carefully budgeted. The perfect five-month rollout that tied together leadership development, discipleship groups, and even a new volunteer onboarding pathway. I had charts. I had buy-in. I had the whole thing laid out like a well-prayed-over blueprint.

And then it unraveled—beautifully.

Not in a catastrophe, but in the way that only real ministry can undo you. A new believer asked a question I couldn’t answer. A seasoned leader quietly confessed he didn’t feel equipped to lead anymore. A team that looked solid on the outside was quietly struggling on the inside.

None of these realities had a column in my spreadsheet.

The Myth That “More Planning” Fixes Everything

For most of my ministry life, I operated under the quiet assumption that the better my planning, the better the outcomes. Tight timelines, clear expectations, detailed to-do lists—these were the hallmarks of “faithful stewardship” in my mind.

And don’t get me wrong: planning is a form of stewardship.

But over time, I started to see the cracks.

Because ministry isn’t a machine—it’s a garden.

And people aren’t programs—they’re living, breathing souls.

No matter how much data you gather or how well you design your strategy, people don’t always behave according to the plan. And that’s not a failure. That’s ministry.

Why Our Approach to Church Health Assessments Looks Unique

That realization changed not just my philosophy—it shaped how we now approach strategic implementation for every Church Health Assessment we offer.

When a church team partners with us, we start with a robust map:

  • We gather extensive data.
  • We analyze patterns.
  • We identify clear pathways for growth.

The plan is real, intentional, and based on real evidence.

But—and this is critical—we plan in pencil.

Because we know:

Churches are not binary systems.

People aren’t predictable formulas.

Ministry demands flexibility because the Spirit moves in living hearts, not flowcharts.

That’s why when we walk alongside an implementation team, we don’t just drop a static action plan and walk away. We build feedback loops right into the process. Regular check-ins. Team reflections. Space for discernment. Flexibility to pivot when real life demands it.

We steward the data seriously—but we steward the people even more seriously.

How Feedback Makes the Plan Stronger

If there’s one thing we’ve learned, it’s this:

Plans give you a direction. Feedback gives you discernment.

Our strategic implementation model lives in the tension between the two.

We don’t swing to either extreme:

  • We don’t throw out planning and “wing it”—that would be unfaithful.
  • But we also don’t cling to a rigid plan so tightly that we miss what God is actually doing on the ground.

Instead, we move forward wisely, intentionally, but with open hands.

We ask key leaders reflective questions along the way.

We revisit strategies based on new realities.

And through it all, we remind ourselves: the goal isn’t to stick to the original map at all costs.

The goal is health. Growth. Flourishing. Gospel movement.

And those things don’t always follow our timetables.

Ministry Leaders, Here’s What I Hope You Hear

You don’t have to stop planning.

You don’t have to distrust data.

You don’t have to feel like needing to adjust means you did something wrong.

But I encourage you—whether you’re navigating a Church Health Assessment implementation or just stewarding the daily life of your church:

Plan in pencil.

Leave room for grace, for feedback, for surprising growth.

Because in ministry, faithfulness isn’t measured by how closely we stick to the original plan.

It’s measured by how closely we follow the Spirit’s leading—step by faithful step.


If your church is entering a season of strategic reflection or feeling the need for a fresh, Spirit-sensitive pathway toward health, we would be honored to walk that road with you, with a real plan, real flexibility, and a deep respect for the people God has entrusted to you.

3 Tips on Navigating Conflict and Promoting Unity

3 Tips on Navigating Conflict and Promoting Unity

Conflict is not a stranger to the Christian life. Though we are reconciled to God, we still live in a fallen world, among imperfect people, and carry the weight of our own imperfections. Within the Church, the presence of conflict is not a failure of faith—it is an opportunity to express it.

As a pastor who has walked alongside many through seasons of tension and misunderstanding, I have learned that conflict need not be feared. Rather, it can become a sacred space where grace is practiced, humility is grown, and unity is forged.

Let us consider three biblical truths that can guide us as we seek peace within the body of Christ.

1. Pursue Peace with Humility

Paul’s words in Romans 12:18 set the tone:

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

This is not a passive suggestion—it is an active calling. We are not responsible for the responses of others, but we are absolutely responsible for our own. The Christian does not wait for peace to find them; they pursue it.

In the midst of conflict, our posture matters. Are we willing to approach one another not with entitlement, but with empathy? Not with assumptions, but with listening? Humility invites the other to be heard. It lays down the sword of self-justification and picks up the towel of service.

True peace is never achieved by force—it is cultivated through grace. And grace begins with humility.

2. Embrace Conflict as a Means of Growth

We often imagine unity as the absence of disagreement, but Scripture offers a richer, more resilient picture. Proverbs 27:17 reminds us:

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

Sharpening requires friction. Transformation requires tension. Conflict, then, is not always a sign that something is wrong—it may be a sign that something is growing.

When we engage one another with truth and love, our differences can refine rather than divide us. Disagreements can deepen relationships. Honest conversations can forge trust. Through the refining fire of conflict, the Church is made stronger, more compassionate, and more Christlike.

So let us not flee from hard conversations. Let us enter them prayerfully, ready to be sharpened and sanctified.

3. Listen Before You Speak

If we are to be a people marked by peace, we must be a people marked by listening. James 1:19 offers this timeless wisdom:

“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”

Conflict often escalates not because of its content, but because of our response. We rush to defend, to explain, to correct—when we ought first to hear.

Listening is an act of love. It says, “Your voice matters to me.” It disarms defensiveness and invites understanding. When we make space for others to speak, we create space for God to work.

Let our words be few, and our ears attentive. Let our conversations be safe havens of respect and restoration.

A Call to Unity

Conflict is not the enemy of unity—division is. And division takes root when we neglect the hard work of reconciliation. But when we face conflict with humility, treat it as a means of growth, and communicate with grace, we become builders of peace.

Psalm 133:1 casts a vision worth pursuing:

“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity.”

May our churches be places where unity is not assumed, but actively pursued. Where disagreements do not divide us, but deepen our dependence on Christ and on one another. Where the presence of conflict becomes a stage for the gospel to shine.

Let us be known not by the absence of struggle, but by the presence of peacemaking.